By way of introduction

So, this is a blog. Always wondered why anyone would want to hear the various stitches that comprise the intricate fabric I weave between my inner and outer worlds. Wondered who would be interested in whatever "brilliant" aha moments I am having. It turns out that sometimes people want to know, and they are uncomfortable with the honesty in person, other times they have no idea what you are talking about until you translate it well and other times they don't want to hear it in any format. In the end I can't keep it to myself. I've been able to talk anyone under the table for most of my life and thought of blogging as just a way for others do the same (only without the feedback of conversation.)

Then I started reading blog after blog and learned so much that I then knew the real value of sharing what you "know" at any given moment in life. Its going to change, what you "know" that is, and we can all thank heaven for that as otherwise we would be dead. So, here I will be sharing what I am learning and what I think I know, at any given moment, about dating, sex, romance, co-commitment and all the ways there are to heal our relationship to ourselves. Ultimately, I wonder about what sort of world we will have when the relationships we build come through a healthy relationship with ourselves first and foremost. I really believe we are going to do just fine. In fact, better than fine, since of course we can have anything we want and I don't know about you all, but for me and most of my sisters we want the moon, the whole nine yards. We want our cake and eat it too (and as my friend Jamie says "We are talking about cake here, right? Who would want cake they can't eat?") Who says I can't find a great friend, lover, family member, father, husband and brother all in one man? Who says I can't be all those things to myself and sometimes for another? Figure we will just have to see, now won't we?