Now it is time to let my Ideal Relationship results reveal what I have hidden from myself for the better part of my dating lifetime.
What I want.
Happiness is the foundation of our unity, we bring pleasure to one another's lives. When challenges arise we treat each other with respect and communicate honestly. There is only one no - assumptions. We have an extremely satisfying and healthy sex life. We climb all kinds of mountains together. We both do work we love. Sometimes we find work that we love to do together. We make good money doing things we love. Somehow we are made constantly aware of the gift that this relationship is for us both. We are grateful. We remember to share things the other one enjoys. His successes are my successes. My successes are his successes. We grow wise, we grow young. Our birth families enjoy the connection our relationship creates between them. We are very excited to create together, to have children, prepared to pass on the Love and Wholeness of our hearts to them. We deal with any issues that arise as a gift to ourselves and a gift to our children. When the time comes to part in this life (as we remember that humanness and mortality both ensure that it will come by some means, at some time) the parting will be thoroughly mourned, forgiven, accepted and complete. We are better for having been together.
We enjoy the game.
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There, I have admitted to desiring this Relationship and found the words with which to ask for it.
I now choose to forget this final post of A Goddess in Love's inaugural year. Let my Heart do the work and watch in what miraculous ways my desires will be fulfilled along my circuitous 'treasure hunt' path.
As Kahlil Gibran put it, "All that spirits desire, spirits attain."
As simple as that. Bless it and let it go.
Thank you, for continuing to witness the journey.
When love beckons to you, follow him,
Though his ways are hard and steep.And when his wings enfold you yield to him,Though the sword hidden among his pinions may wound you.And when he speaks to you believe in him,Though his voice may shatter your dreamsas the north wind lays waste the garden.
All these things shall love do unto you that you may know the secrets of your heart, and in that knowledge become a fragment of Life's heart.
Love has no other desire but to fulfill itself.
But if you love and must needs have desires, let these be your desires:
To melt and be like a running brook that sings its melody to the night.To know the pain of too much tenderness.To be wounded by your own understanding of love;And to bleed willingly and joyfully.To wake at dawn with a winged heart and give thanks for another day of loving;To rest at the noon hour and meditate love's ecstasy;To return home at eventide with gratitude;And then to sleep with a prayer for the beloved in your heart and a song of praise upon your lips.
- Khalil Gibran on Love
